Thursday, May 31, 2012

31st May 2012





Another few weeks have come and gone, and we have lot of news.

Michael participated in a Film Academy workshop, where he learned how to audition, the importance of your presentation, eye contact, and mannerisms.  For example, don't fold your arms, it makes you look guarded and not easily approachable.  A director will likely pick a child who has an open demeanor, as they seem easier to work with and more likely to take instruction eagerly.

The kids did a skit called the Polar Bear and the Eskimo.


On the way there we saw a news article about the Wiggles, Mike's (obsessively) favorite childhood band, show, and toy line from 6 mo to 6 years old.  The article told us that the Wiggles have announced their retirement, and the handing over of the Big Red Car keys to a new generation of Wiggles.  Michael started crying.  He was heartbroken at the thought of having no more Jeff, Anthony, Greg, and Murray out there performing shows.  After some consoling, and discussion about the importance of these Wiggles (aged 40 to 50's) to slow down and take care of themselves, he became more understanding and willing to embrace the passing down of the Big Red Car.  They are doing their last tour this year, and Grandma (D'you D'you) very kindly bought tickets for Mike to see their final show in Brighton.

At 10 years, all of this hit me unexpectedly.  I thought those days were over for him, but he obviously holds them close to his heart.  Talk about loyal!  While putting him to sleep last night, I noticed that the Lego 'Wiggles' were strewn over the dresser after being attacked by Joker, Bane, and a few other nefarious DC characters.  One can only hope that Batman will come to the rescue soon.

The Wiggles with custom instruments before the attack of the Joker

We had our first very convenient week for me to be off work, as we had the car cleaned and serviced.  One would think that after having it serviced, when you set out on your trip to Birmingham the next day, one would have working Air Conditioning.  One would be wrong.

One would also assume that their hotel room would be air conditioned.  Wrong again.

We did get to see a train on the motorway though...and that doesn't happen very often!

A train on the motorway

Friday evening we went to dinner at TGI Fridays with Jamie and Adi. Jaime works with Neil and it was great to be able to get together and meet them.  We had a great night of laughs.

TGI Fun!

We have not eaten in a restaurant, nor had any food outside of our respective diets, in about a month.  Neil stayed on track through the meal with a rib eye, and had a chocolate cake for desert which he didn't finish.  I had chicken fajitas, and only ate a quarter of it, but finished off with a gorgeous slice of cheesecake.  Speaking of food, as of this write up, Neil has lost an amazing 12 lbs since 5th May on the Dukan Diet!  I am so proud of him, he has really stuck to his guns with this diet.  I haven't stayed with Dukan, but have lost 6 lbs.  The boring details of my diet is in another blog...

The convention was a fun day, and Neil got to pick up a copy of the deluxe edition of Ankh-Morpork, containing wicked resin components.

The resin peices


The Board

Michael chilled out with some Dr Who's and Dolly the Dalek, and we found a new Dr. Who RPG game soon to be released that we have added to Mike's future gift list.


   


We picked up some new 12 sided die to replace the lost set from Killer Bunnies, and got to play a few games we hadn't tried before: Gem Dealer, Botswana, and Cloud 9.

Mike and Neil playing Cloud 9 at UK Games Expo in Birmingham

Of course, there were loads of people dressed in outrageous costumes, and we really like the storm troopers who were providing security this year.


Mike getting the 'Heathrow' treatment


No Humans beyond this point
We drove home Saturday afternoon and were home a bit after 6pm, so we called the Pat and Cush at the kennel and asked to pick up the dogs a day early, which they were fine with.  It was so nice to have the family together again!  Even a day without them seems too long to me.  Our dear pups have picked up a new habit.  When walking, it is perfectly acceptable to stop at any time and take a nap!

Sorry!  We aren't moving!


On Sunday, Michael and I took the convoluted trek to London for a Street dance Academy Video shoot.




Eating the mega ham and egg roll on the train.

After arriving and waiting a bit longer than Mike would have liked, the parents were ushered out of the studio and I took my seat across from another mom, basking in the unusually warm weather, and we chatted about boys and parenting.  When the kids came out for break, it appeared that Mike had struck up a friendship with the son of the mom I was chatting with, which was a nice coincidence, and when the filming was over, she gave us a ride to the station to catch our train home.  Mike said he had a great time doing the shoot, and he would even like to go take the Street dance Academy course himself.
Waiting to start the filming


Coming home from Studio

On Monday I dropped Michael off at school and took a long leisurely walk around the fields with "Frick and Frack" as I often refer to the dogs. Samson has become fast friends with the creek, and has taken to a game in which I throw a stick into the water and the creek carries it downstream.  He follows, and eventually catches the stick.  The water is shallow enough that it doesn't require him to swim.  I don't think he would like that much to be honest!

 When I picked Mike up in the afternoon he excitedly told me that he had won second place in the talent contest and would be performing at the Jubilee celebration on stage next week at school.

Listening to instructions at street dance 
 
Street dance pose
"What was your talent?"  I asked, puzzled.  A myriad of things ran through my mind.  Magic?  Jokes?

"I did the street dance routine I learned yesterday for the video!"  he beamed  "it was really good!"

I was grinning like a monkey no doubt.  I hadn't realized that he had learned a routine on Sunday, so it was doubly a surprise, and I was very happy for him.  Parents can't come to the Jubilee party next week, so I will have to take his word on his debut performance, and sadly, wont have photos.

Yesterday our Olympic tickets arrived. It comes with travelcards too, so our train fare is included! Yay!  We have invited Michael's friend along, and both boys are very excited to be part of the Olympic excitement.

Olympic Tickets!
 Til next time!

Thursday, May 3, 2012

3rd May 2011
















I flew into Washington Dulles to pick Mike up from his dad's in Virginia.  The flight was Virgin Atlantic, which has proved one of the most reasonable and the most comfortable companies around.  I have perfected seat selection to a fine science, situating myself at the end of a row, so that no person is sitting behind me; on the aisle, so I am free to get up as often as I like; near the restroom, so I never have to queue to get in; and most cleverly, I go see the flight attendant as soon as I enter the plane and request the pasta dish.  They always sell out of the pasta before getting to the end of the row, and because I have now entered a 'special request' I get served first and don't have to wait 45 minutes for the trolley to reach me.  I COULD order the vegetarian dish before flying, but the true vegan dish is reportedly quite vile (according to my friends in the sky (flight attendants).  So, as you can see, I take all of this very seriously.  It is all about managing my environment!!! :-)

My friend, Sue, picked me up from Dulles, and as always it was fantastic to get a chance to spend time with her.  We went back to her house, which was basically completely packed as she is moving, and then we went out shopping.  I bought a few new pairs of jeans, a shirt, and a pink sleeveless jacket for springtime dog walks. Clothing is much more reasonably priced in the US, and for some reason, I find it very hard to find clothing that fits me here.  It seems there is a general lack of smallish waists paired with thunder thighs on this side of the pond, where it is pretty obviously a 'normal' shape in the US.  All of my trousers here gap really wide at the waist.  It looks ridiculous.

Saturday we drove to Charlottesville to pick Mike up.  We met his dad and brother at IHops and had breakfast before driving back up to spend the night at Springhill Suites, where my mother was waiting for us.  It was great to have a chance to spend time with her, as we haven't had much time together in the past few years, and even chatting on the phone has been near impossible while I was working.  We got to stay in the same room that we had stayed in two years ago when we met up, which was rather odd.

The flight home was uneventful, it was pretty empty so I moved to another row and Mike sat alone.  This was for sleeping purposes, but he didn't sleep anyway!  We got home at 10:30, and Neil had already left to catch his flight to India.  How strange it felt to be chatting on the phone--he updating me on his progress getting to Heathrow--and my updating him on our departing!  After 24 hours of being awake Mike finally crashed, and he didn't wake up until noon the next day!  (No school for him!).

We did finally get back into schedule, and we are happily back into normality now.

Neil's trip to India was pleasant.  He was in business class and looked quite comfortable.

Unfortunately, it was truly a business trip, and he didn't have the opportunity to get out and discover what India had to offer.  It was very nice to have him come home, the dogs were especially happy to see him.  Lots of tail wagging and jumping around.  He brought us back some souvenirs, Mike got a Ty Beanie Elephant, and I got a dress and some Russian nesting dolls (I have a strange liking of them).

All is back to normal in our schedule, we have a few boys joining us, and the dogs are enjoying getting out for their twice daily school runs.  We haven't gone on our long walks yet, as it has rained nearly non-stop since we got home.  It is still raining, and seems no end in sight!

Finally, we are removing almost all sugar from our diet.  This comes after watching Sugar: The Bitter Truth on YouTube.


Its about an hour and half long, so don't bother watching if you aren't really interested!  I went looking for sugar information after I realized that if I spent most of the day without added sugar (biscuits, sugar in coffee, etc.) and then ate something with significant sugar, I spent the rest of the day really hungry and craving more and more sweets.  It just seems to me that that can not be normal.

So, now after much reading and thinking about it, I am on day 6 of 'no sugar added' living.  I am not getting cravings, and I have noticed that when I do 'crave' it is because I had high carbs.  We have decided to go to a high protein, low carbohydrate, no (or low) added sugar diet.  There is no intention to NEVER eat chocolate or cake again, BUT this will be something that will be a rare occasion.  Not a daily, or AT LEAST thrice weekly event, as it has been.

I'll update you on our success.  :-)

Wednesday, May 2, 2012

Happy Easter


The quintessential British Easter - giant chocolate eggs with Trademarked mugs

Happy Easter! 

I hope everyone enjoyed the long weekend and had the chance to spend time with family and friends.  With Mike spending Easter in America, we expected a rather dull weekend, but as you will see, our week has ended up being full of good times and entertainment.

Before I go further though, we received the unfortunate news that my Grandmother passed away on Easter day.   My grandmother was the most independent woman I have ever met, and her influence on me was lifechanging.  Having suffered quite a lot from anxiety and fears, it was her example of fearlessness and independence that rallied me to become the person I am today.  The person who could move to another country--who will jump from the precipice--sometimes to my own detriment, but nevertheless, I WILL jump! I know that this example of strength was an influence on other women in her life, and I am very proud of her accomplishments.

My Grandma, Mary

We had a spring Basset Hound retreat when Bertie and Bella came to visit for a week.  It was fun having four dogs, and while it is full on busy, it is worth it.  Hounds are truly pack animals, so watching them in a 'pack' is interesting.  They really get on well, and sometimes they can get cranky but moments later are the best of friends.  Samson and Delilah did need some serious 'daddy time' though...which on a normal schedule they are completely unwilling to share with one another, but exceptional circumstances seem to change the rules.

Two bassets wanting individual attention


Left to Right: Bella, Delilah, Bertie and Samson all cuddled on the couch


"You have my attention"


We had a nice Easter at the Prestwood, having a picnic and Egg hunt.  I usually don't run..but I do when I am hunting chocolate..which I guess says something about my weight issues....

Easter Picnic at Prestwood


Pigs at Prestwood


Finding worms for the chickens at Prestwood


The Easter egg hunt at Prestwood


Mike's riding instructor showing how its done



Beautiful flowers from Bella and Bertie


Sadly, I left this post in draft for quite a few weeks, but had some gentle prodding, so here is Easter's blog
 :-)